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THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO KNOW ABOUT LIFE.

  Have you ever thought that a mistake or failure might have been your fault before? …………….. Your answer. (you can also comment down below)                      

Most times, we end up blaming a lot of things, for our mistakes and failures while we are the cause of whatever happens to us. I have learned that;

“In every mistake we make, there is an atom of our fault in it, even if we weren’t the people that started it”.

            So many times, I have heard people blame God for their failures and mistakes, and some blame their friends, their families, their countries. Some blame social media and some blame their phones or even laptops or any gadgets they are making use of. While we are the cause of our problems. Some even blame their village people for the death of someone or even for their sickness.

I have heard people put blames on so many things that are also irrelevant. Some even put the blame on nature, saying

“the time ran very fast today, so I wasn’t able to complete the task for today”. Whereas they don’t have what is called ‘Time Management skill’.

mistake, error, facepalm

But that doesn’t mean that some of these things can’t be the reason or the cause of our mistakes and failures but knowing that we also have to take part in the blame, will make us understand comprehensively.

           Understanding that every mistake we make have some atom of our fault in it, will help you think less of that mistake. Instead it will make you think of how to correct it or solve the problem.

           I have a friend whose body stature was very beautiful if you ask me, but she wasn’t satisfied. So, she decided to go for plastic surgery to enlarge her butt and boos (BBL). After the surgery, she began having complications, after some months of treatment without any good result, she kicked the bucket. Money wasted, and gone. My beautiful friend also gone. Pain and sorrow filled all our hearts.

           On her burial day, I heard one of her friends saying that “it was the fault of her boyfriend and what she saw trending on IG (Instagram), She wanted to belong”.

These words got to me “She wanted to belong”. She wanted her boyfriend to love her more, and not to cheat on her so she decided to enlarge her body. She also wanted to be like her friends and other people she sees on Instagram, so she decided to enlarge the parts of her body that she wasn’t satisfied with the way her creator made her.

         Am very sure a large percentage of people reading this will blame the social media and also her boyfriend for her death, although they might have their own blame but she also has an atom of blame for her own death.

       Her boyfriend and social media showed her what they felt, and what they would prefer but she on her own side because of lack of ‘Self Esteem or what I call Self Love’, she went ahead to please them, forgetting about her body.

        Conclusion:

Self-love and self-esteem is something everyone should have and something I will advise the parents to start teaching their children from infancy, it should be part of parenting lessons.

heart, self-esteem, self liberation

‘Men, women, boys, girls, young and even old people should have self-love and self-esteem’.

         So many people blame social media, for the bad influences they make on people, many of us are quick to put all the blames on social media. Forgetting that social media can also be good and bad it’s just left for us to make our own decision of the one to choose. The one we want social media to influence us with ‘the good or the bad’.

A lot of things on social media today are fake, even a lot of people posting things on social media too are fake. We shouldn’t allow the things we see, to deceive us.

Try your best to have self-esteem and self-love, create it and hold onto it. Always tell yourself you are beautiful. Have positive mindset about yourself. Don’t give listening ears to all that people say about you. Appreciate yourself the way you are. Mind the things you use on yourself. And also, the words you speak to your head, always speak good things to your brain. Our unconscious state reads a lot that we are not aware of to our minds, so be mindful of what you say and the advice you accept from people.

self love, hands, keep

        So, for me, the most important thing to know about life is what I call self-love, because once you love yourself, you already know how to appreciate yourself, how to choose the advice that people give you, you won’t be easily influence  badly by the actions, words and what you see about people. Learn to love yourself because this is the ultimate.

https://johellaa.com/what-made-him-not-to-have-sex-with-me/

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4 COMMENTS

  1. Wonderful write up,self love is paramount to truly living,a healthy self esteem reduces the unnecessary drama we put ourselves through.

  2. It’s in embedded in us to appreciate/ luv ourselves first before expecting others to do same to us….#kudos Dr well articulated….

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