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5 Best Things to Talk About on a First Date

First dates isn’t a joke because it will really determine if the relationship will continue or not. Some people won’t go past the stage of first date while some would really have loved what they are going into right from the start. First date isn’t just for merriment and eating alone because that’s many peoples orientation about it.

If many are asked what they will do in their first date, you will be amazed at their responses because it’s full of irrelevant things when there are so many things that should be discussed. First dates are for knowing who your spouse is, their lives and this will give you the insight of what you’re going into. It’s most times used for asking questions like what, where, how because that’s the right time to ask the questions.

This is one of the most important questions you should ask in a first date. A little trip down memory lane for them and some good insight for you! Usually, you can’t go wrong with asking about their childhood. For example, do they have any siblings? What state or city did they grow up in? What are some of their favorite childhood memories? What about schools?

Below are some basic important things and questions to talk about on the first date:

1.  Where did you grow up

Getting them to open up about their past can give you a better insight into their personality and whether you have anything in common. Maybe you both enjoyed the same TV shows or music growing up, or maybe your families vacationed in the same spots. Talking about your childhoods is a fun way to boost your connection and get you comfortable with each other.

That said, keep in mind that someone might have a troubled or traumatizing past. If that’s the case, they’ll likely say they’d rather not discuss it, to which you should show compassion and quickly change the subject. Doing so shows respect and boosts initial trust.

2. What’s your hobby

This is another great way to find out if you have any common interests. It also gives you more insight into their personality and what they’re passionate about. Are they the outgoing type that loves the social scene? Are they more introverted and prefer staying in? Are they a movie buff or avid golfer? Are you fans of the same football team?

When you figure out how they spend most of their time, it will give you a better idea of how much free time they have and how often you might be able to see them. Learning what they like to do for fun can also spark future date ideas!

3. How’s your work going?

This is usually a pretty safe topic! Ask about their work background, skills, and what they enjoy most about their job. What are their ambitions? Any career goals? Opening up about your professional lives can reveal a lot about work ethic, long-term goals, and priorities.

If they are very career-driven, it’s something to think about, since they may not have a ton of free time. (Every situation is different, of course.) You can also gauge if they plan on staying in the area or if they’re willing to move wherever a job takes them.

Also Check Out: 10 THINGS TO AVOID DOING ON YOUR FIRST DATE

4. What’s your turn offs?

Knowing someone turn off will really keep you out of so many troubles as some people don’t give second chance. Once you cross their line, then that’s the end of the journey. Knowing their common do’s and don’t isn’t a bad question to ask on a first date. For example, a guy whose turn off is for you not to touch or share his food with him, if you don’t know about this and go and touch his food, do you think he will go on another date with you?

5. Tell me about your friends

What type of people does your new interest hang around with? Who knows, maybe you have friends in common! You can tell a lot about someone by looking at their friends. After all, we’ve all heard the expression “you are the company you keep.

Your social circle tends to reflect your own personality and can influence you without even knowing it. Usually, people befriend others that share similar interests, values, and opinions. Ask about their closest friends and what they like to do together. You should also pay attention to how they describe their friends — trash talking is definitely a red flag. You’ll learn more about the type of people they associate with and what kind of friend they are to other people.

Conclusion

There are so many important things to talk about rather than ordering some expensive foods and drinks all around. Let’s take note of these points.

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